Ground rules for talking calmly to settle family quarrels

Families quarrel over money, property or small things, and in anger someone raises a hand or says what cannot be taken back. Relationships stay broken for years. The family sits together and agrees a few rules: step away for a while when angry, do not cut in when another is speaking, never raise a hand. If someone turns violent, call 109 or 999. If it will not settle, ask a respected person in the para for help. You need a calm time and everyone's sincerity.